How are you supposed to know someone is telling the truth? How do you know they've changed? Because they say so ? I wish it were that easy. You would think that if you were given a second /third / fourth chance you would surely see and feel the change. Or is it only when the chase is there that its all or nothing. I really don't see how someone sleeping gives the other carte Blanche to find the attention elsewhere. Online , where else.
Who was it that told me a tiger never changes his stripes , right ?
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Saturday, February 2, 2013
The Latte Mommy: Truth be told, or not!
The Latte Mommy: Truth be told, or not!: Its so easy to give directions /advice/ instructions when you are looking at it from the outside in. When you dont have to be the one to do ...
Truth be told, or not!
Its so easy to give directions /advice/ instructions when you are looking at it from the outside in. When you dont have to be the one to do it consistently. And then again, we all have different styles of getting things done. I hate to be the one who is inside the box, being looked at,because i can see it almost as clearly as if i were looking at it straight on.
So all is well, on the outside, but really the are as good as they were before,. You know now exactly what u knew then. It all seemed ok, But now really, how does a tiger change its stripes, and so god damned fast and matter of factually, If that was the case, why didn't mind over matter prevail before? Really is there now someone to say, "its not happening again". How many times do u believe the promises? One last time, right. Its always one last time. How stupid do we sound, "but this time, if i find out anything, its over" LMAO. how stupid. Looking in it sounds ridiculous and guess what, looking out it feels the exact same way.
Then again, there is the non existential (sp) side of it. Like who cares, we could all die tomorrow, no harm, no foul. Words are words, actions are just that. It is so hard to determine what exactly is so important. Or is any of it? Live life, but while looking over our shoulder? waiting for the other shoe to drop, finding clues. I dont think that is it. It really boils down to the feeling of being taken for a fool, taken for granted, pushed aside. And then, POW, isnt the saying "you don't know what u got until its gone" a winner. And then it becomes the same old cliche, once you get it, the thrill of the chase is over. So sad we can pre-determine the path so easily. I suppose because in all reality, the more things change, the more they truly do stay the same.
HUGS.
T.
So all is well, on the outside, but really the are as good as they were before,. You know now exactly what u knew then. It all seemed ok, But now really, how does a tiger change its stripes, and so god damned fast and matter of factually, If that was the case, why didn't mind over matter prevail before? Really is there now someone to say, "its not happening again". How many times do u believe the promises? One last time, right. Its always one last time. How stupid do we sound, "but this time, if i find out anything, its over" LMAO. how stupid. Looking in it sounds ridiculous and guess what, looking out it feels the exact same way.
Then again, there is the non existential (sp) side of it. Like who cares, we could all die tomorrow, no harm, no foul. Words are words, actions are just that. It is so hard to determine what exactly is so important. Or is any of it? Live life, but while looking over our shoulder? waiting for the other shoe to drop, finding clues. I dont think that is it. It really boils down to the feeling of being taken for a fool, taken for granted, pushed aside. And then, POW, isnt the saying "you don't know what u got until its gone" a winner. And then it becomes the same old cliche, once you get it, the thrill of the chase is over. So sad we can pre-determine the path so easily. I suppose because in all reality, the more things change, the more they truly do stay the same.
HUGS.
T.
Saturday, November 17, 2012
The Latte Mommy: really good advice
The Latte Mommy: really good advice: Did you ever come across one of those articles in a magazine, "Why do men cheat?". Of course you have, I often glance at the title and thin...
really good advice
Did you ever come across one of those articles in a magazine, "Why do men cheat?". Of course you have, I often glance at the title and think hmm i wonder what reasons there could be, and this article was giving 30 reasons or so. But i usually just keep on going, really what importance is it for me, - thinking foolishly "my man wouldnt cheat". Now im talking all kinds of cheating, not necessarily sex. The emotional cheating is just as bad, when your partners mind wanders, a little too far away from its home. Its a matter of love, honor , respect and dignity. At any rate, i came across an article 31 reasons why men dont cheat. It was just simple but beautiful.
For all the men out there that keep their promise of fidelity and maintain the intimacy they have with their love, the read is for you. B/c i dont believe that all men cheat. I dont believe "once a cheater , always a cheater" . I believe anyone can change, its kind of like going on a diet, its not just the fact you cant have 10 choc chip cookies, in the next week b/c you need to get into that dress this weekend, its that you have to change your lifestyle. maintanence is the hardest part.
I still think of the saying, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice , shame on me. Anyway, here is a link to it if you like, http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/31-reasons-why-men-dont-cheat/
Its a good website- so there is my thought for the hour lol.
Hugs xoxo
For all the men out there that keep their promise of fidelity and maintain the intimacy they have with their love, the read is for you. B/c i dont believe that all men cheat. I dont believe "once a cheater , always a cheater" . I believe anyone can change, its kind of like going on a diet, its not just the fact you cant have 10 choc chip cookies, in the next week b/c you need to get into that dress this weekend, its that you have to change your lifestyle. maintanence is the hardest part.
I still think of the saying, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice , shame on me. Anyway, here is a link to it if you like, http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/31-reasons-why-men-dont-cheat/
Its a good website- so there is my thought for the hour lol.
Hugs xoxo
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
The Latte Mommy: Vulnerability sucks
The Latte Mommy: Vulnerability sucks: Cleaning cleaning cleaning, thats all ive been doing, but it seems nothing is clean enough. I wish i could clean out my head, of all the bad...
Vulnerability sucks
Cleaning cleaning cleaning, thats all ive been doing, but it seems nothing is clean enough. I wish i could clean out my head, of all the bad memories ive accumulated. I saw this show on mtv last night "catfish" . It was pretty good, it was about being deceived online by people pretending to like you, and tell you lies about themselves, just for fun. Pretending to be a different person with this great life. Then these guys investigate the person and they take the person to go meet their "online love". This one turned out that it was a girl pretending to be some great guy!! She had been bullied in school and it just felt good to bully others.
I was watching it and loving it and then i got really sad b/c it just reminds me that some of us, maybe me lol, are just too trusting and giving and put their heart out their. And we get played, not just online but in person. Esp when we are at our most vulnerable . That is when they close in on you. So i turned it off. Like i said, i wish i could clean out these bad memories i keep in my heart and head. But it seems that there is no amount of magic cleaner out there to do that, at least not now.
HUGS
xoxox
I was watching it and loving it and then i got really sad b/c it just reminds me that some of us, maybe me lol, are just too trusting and giving and put their heart out their. And we get played, not just online but in person. Esp when we are at our most vulnerable . That is when they close in on you. So i turned it off. Like i said, i wish i could clean out these bad memories i keep in my heart and head. But it seems that there is no amount of magic cleaner out there to do that, at least not now.
HUGS
xoxox
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